Passive communicators
People who are passive communicators
typically prioritize the rights of others before their own. When speaking,
passive communicators frequently seem hesitant or apologize. If they believe
they are being mistreated, they remain silent. A manner of speaking that
minimizes your own value by prioritizing the rights of others.
- My feelings are not important
- I
don’t matter
- I
think I’m inferior
Apologetic Overly soft or tentative voice
- Looking down or away
- Stooped
posture, excessive head nodding
- Lowered self-esteem
- Anger
at self
- False
feelings of inferiority
- Disrespect
from others
- Pitied
by others
Assertive communicators
When they communicate, assertive communicators
respect others' rights as well as their own. Although neither rude nor
disrespectful, this person usually speaks straight. While defending their own
rights, an aggressive communicator also looks out for the rights of others.
a manner of communicating where you respect the rights of others and assert
your own worth while doing so.
We are both important
- We
both matter
- I
think we are equal
Looking direct, relaxed posture, smooth and relaxed
movements
- Firm
voice
- High
self-esteem
- Self-respect
- Respect
from others
- Respect
of others
Aggressive communicators
A communication style where you defend your rights while violating those of
others
However, will appear to be defending their own rights at the expense of potentially infringing those of others.
This person tends to communicate in a way that tells others
they don’t matter or their feelings don’t matter.
Communication style in which you stand up for your rights but
you violate the rights of others
1. Your
feelings are not important
2. You don’t matter
3. I think I’m superior
You statements in loud voice
1. Staring, narrow eyes
2. Tense, clenched
fists, rigid posture, pointing fingers
1. Anger from others
2. Lowered self-esteem
3. Disrespect from
others
4. Feared by others
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