Socrates

"The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing." 

Socrates

"To find yourself, think for yourself."

Nelson Mandela

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Jim Rohn

"Success is nothing more than a few simple disciplines, practiced every day." 

Buddha

"The mind is everything. What you think, you become." 

Showing posts with label Human Communication. Show all posts
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Sunday, 20 October 2024

The difference between connotation and denotation - Communication barriers

 


A word’s denotation is its plain and direct meaning or meanings. It’s what the word explicitly means—that is, what is fully and clearly expressed by a word. Denotation is the literal meaning of a word.

A word’s connotation is what the word implies or suggests; that is, the nuances and shades of meaning that the word brings along with it, apart from what it explicitly names or describes. Connotation, on the other hand, is an indirect or implied meaning or feeling.

Denotation is concerned with explicit meaning, and connotation tends to be concerned with implicit meaning.

The word home, for instance, has a denotation of “the place (such as a house or apartment) where a person lives,” but it may additionally have many connotations (such as “warmth,” “security,” or “childhood”) for some people.

There are several common elements to any communication exchange.

 First, there is always a sender and a receiver. The sender is the individual that sends a message while the receiver is the individual to which the message was sent.

The message, in communication theory, is the idea encoded and sent by the sender in verbal, non-verbal, or written language. Messages are delivered through a medium, then the receiver of the message decodes the message into information. Sometimes, there can be noise that distorts this message.

Communication  barriers

An example of noise would be a language barrier, emotions, or attitudes.

1. DENOTATIVE BARRIERS AND CONNOTATIVE BARRIERS.

A denotative barrier is a difference in the definition or meaning.

A denotative barrier is a difference in the definition or meaning of a word used by the sender and receiver. Ultimately, the sender and receiver don’t agree on the meaning of a word and so they encounter some miscommunication.

A connotative barrier refers to the difference of meaning according to different abstract situations and contexts. The sender and the receiver know the meanings of the word, but use the meaning that fits the context of the conversation. The word current is a good example of this type of barrier.

To understand semantic barriers, it’s important to understand the theory of communication. Communication is the process of exchanging information and common understanding between two people⁵. To have communication, there must be a common understanding. If there is no understanding between the sender and the receiver, there is no communication. 

All the elements of the communication process affect the quality of a communication exchange. A problem in any one of these elements can result in ineffective communication⁵. There are many barriers to effective communication.

There are process barriers, which include anything that impedes the communication process, such as a medium barrier. Imagine you have an issue with your coworker. Instead of talking to the coworker face-to-face, you decide to send them a strongly worded email in the heat of the moment. This can result in a medium barrier, where the channel through which the message was sent leads to a misunderstanding.

There can also be physical barriers, which are tangible barriers to communication, such as the distance between two people.

Lastly, there are semantic barriers, which refers to the words we choose, how we use them, and the meaning attached to these words. They can also be seen as “noise” that changes the meaning of the message sent by the sender to the receiver. There are two types of semantic barriers that exist in communication:

What are Semantic Barriers?

Semantic barriers are obstacles in communication that distort or misinterpret the meaning of a message. These barriers can arise from differences in language, terminology, or the context in which words are used, leading to misunderstandings and miscommunication.

To understand what semantic barriers are, it’s important to first understand what semantic means. Semantics is the study of meaning, signs and symbols used for communication


Sunday, 6 October 2024

A Definition of Professional Relationships With Types

 

The professional connections we make at work are important for our future professional partnerships as well as our well-being right now. While the connections you make with senior staff members and other colleagues might be beneficial to your career, their quality will vary widely based on the personalities of the individuals involved and their specific goals. Gaining knowledge about these connections might help you build new ones and strengthen the ones you already have.

  • Trust: When you trust your team members, you can be open and honest about your thoughts and feelings without the fear of judgement.
  • Respect: Workplace communication that breeds respect for others' input, experience and expertise helps find solutions based on collective insight.
  • Self-awareness: When you're aware of the impact of your behaviour and attitude on the people around you, you're more willing to take responsibility for your words and actions.
  • Inclusion: Inclusivity demonstrates respect for different insights and perspectives when making decisions and finding solutions.
  • Open communication: The more openly you communicate with those around you, the more effectively you'll connect and work together.
By fostering healthy relationships professionally, your wellbeing can improve too. Healthy relationships in the workplace feed through into your personal life and can help to reduce feelings of loneliness and boost your overall happiness.
Types of relationships in the workplace
Relationships in the workplace can be broadly classified into two categories: those that are solely professional and those that have more social and personal aspects. Both play crucial roles in enhancing both professional and personal pleasure and are equally vital for workplace wellbeing. Among the prevalent kinds are:
Colleague or coworker
Coworker connections are those between employees of the same organization, even if they are not on the same team. This is the most prevalent kind of professional relationship, and depending on the situation, it may acquire special qualities or traits. Though largely accidental, it's crucial to treat these business associates with respect.
Team member
The relationship between team members is that of coworkers who, despite any differences in duties, strive toward the shared objectives of the team they work on. Tight interpersonal interactions with a common goal define team member partnerships. Because team members frequently collaborate for the majority of the workday, these connections may take on traits from more casual friendships and partnerships.
Client
Relationships between a product or service supplier and the client they are provided with exist between clients. Since businesses are providing something that their clients want and eventually pay for, these interactions are typically more formal. Even though you might not ever have to deal with clients in a specific capacity, knowing the importance of preserving positive client relations is a valuable skill to have.
Supervisor
For long-term job satisfaction and productive performance, employees and their management must have a positive working relationship. Because managers and team members naturally collaborate closely, their roles can have a big impact on each other. You may have numerous opportunities to develop this relationship because your manager assigns the job, keeps track of its progress, and requests regular updates.
Mentor
By definition, a mentor-mentee relationship centers on the possibility of professional development for the employee. A mentor is a seasoned team or organization member who supports a rookie team member during their formative years. Mentors offer assistance, direction, knowledge, skill, and compassion.
Mentors assist you in navigating the environment of your organization and taking on difficult issues. They offer you insight into how to manage your most difficult relationships and problems in order to help you

We may understand why professional connections are so important to establish and preserve by describing them.

An interpersonal relationship between two or more people in a business setting constitutes this type of link. Because of the professional standards and office culture that shape how people interact with one another, these interactions are typically more formal than those that occur outside of the job. When they are in good shape, professional relationships are advantageous to both parties for a variety of reasons. A fruitful working partnership consists of:


Colleague at work

People you know from work and socialize with both inside and outside of the workplace are known as work friends. You might chat to them at work events, go to lunch together, sit next to them in meetings, and even develop friendships outside of the office. Had work not brought you together, you might not have gotten to know these people, yet

Building and maintaining professional relationships

Healthy relationships at work are a big part of being satisfied in your role, so strengthening your ability to develop and maintain them can help you thrive. Here are our top tips for forming and maintaining essential bonds at work:

Be polite, professional and friendly

Being polite shows that you appreciate and regard other people's opinions and behave honorably and kindly toward them.

Communicate clearly and listen actively

Building meaningful relationships with senior staff members and other employees might be facilitated by the way you write or speak to them. Make sure everyone you communicate with knows how important it is to you by being understandable and clear

Be inclusive

Including others gives them confidence and gives them a sense of worth and appreciation. Making someone feel welcome can be as easy as asking them to lunch with a teammate or expressing interest in something they have in common.

Be mindful and return kindness

This can be accomplished in a variety of ways, such as assisting a colleague in planning a team outing or finishing an assignment ahead of schedule. When both sides are eager to support and value one another, a deeper professional relationship can be developed. This kind of courteous and giving trade benefits both parties.

Be flexible

Everyone can benefit from flexibility by being able to understand the wider picture and how various strategies and concepts might work together to realize a shared goal. Being adaptable encourages others to act in this way as well.

Respond to feedback positively

You can address particular concerns that might be impeding your professional development by soliciting opinions from others.

Assertive, passive, aggressive, and passive-aggressive styles of Communicator


Passive
 communicators

People who are passive communicators typically prioritize the rights of others before their own. When speaking, passive communicators frequently seem hesitant or apologize. If they believe they are being mistreated, they remain silent. A manner of speaking that minimizes your own value by prioritizing the rights of others.

  • My feelings are not important
  • I don’t matter
  • I think I’m inferior

Apologetic Overly soft or tentative voice

  • Looking down or away
  • Stooped posture, excessive head nodding
    • Lowered self-esteem
    • Anger at self
    • False feelings of inferiority
    • Disrespect from others
    • Pitied by others

Assertive communicators

When they communicate, assertive communicators respect others' rights as well as their own. Although neither rude nor disrespectful, this person usually speaks straight. While defending their own rights, an aggressive communicator also looks out for the rights of others.
a manner of communicating where you respect the rights of others and assert your own worth while doing so.

 We are both important

  • We both matter
  • I think we are equal

Looking direct, relaxed posture, smooth and relaxed movements

  • Firm voice
  • High self-esteem
  • Self-respect
  • Respect from others
  • Respect of others

Aggressive communicators


Conversely, assertive speakers will appear to be defending their own rights while potentially infringing upon those of others. This individual frequently communicates with people in a way that suggests others don't matter or that their feelings are unimportant.

A communication style where you defend your rights while violating those of others

 However, will appear to be defending their own rights at the expense of potentially infringing those of others.

This person tends to communicate in a way that tells others they don’t matter or their feelings don’t matter.

Communication style in which you stand up for your rights but you violate the rights of others

1.   Your feelings are not important

2.   You don’t matter

3.   I think I’m superior

You statements in loud voice

1.   Staring, narrow eyes

2.   Tense, clenched fists, rigid posture, pointing fingers

1.   Anger from others

2.   Lowered self-esteem

3.   Disrespect from others

4.   Feared by others

 

Wednesday, 2 October 2024

Negotiation

  


Negotiation is a method by which people settle differences. It is a process by which compromise or agreement is reached while avoiding argument and dispute.

Without negotiation, such conflicts may lead to argument. The point of negotiation is to try to reach agreements without causing future barriers to communications.

Stages of Negotiation

In order to achieve a desirable outcome, it may be useful to follow a structured approach to negotiation. For example, in a work situation a meeting may need to be arranged in which all parties involved can come together.

The process of negotiation includes the following stages:

1.Preparation

2.Discussion

3.Clarification of goals

4.Negotiate towards a Win-Win outcome

5.Agreement

6.Implementation of a course of action

1. Preparation

Before any negotiation takes place, a decision needs to be taken as to when and where a meeting will take place to discuss the problem and who will attend. Setting a limited time-scale can also be helpful to prevent the disagreement continuing.

2. Discussion

During this stage, individuals or members of each side put forward the case as they see it, i.e. their understanding of the situation. 

Sometimes it is helpful to take notes during the discussion stage to record all points put forward in case there is need for further clarification. 

 3. Clarifying Goals

From the discussion, the goals, interests and viewpoints of both sides of the disagreement need to be clarified.  It is helpful to list these factors in order of priority. 

4. Negotiate Towards a Win-Win Outcome

This stage focuses on what is termed a 'win-win' outcome where both sides feel they have gained something positive through the process of negotiation and both sides feel their point of view has been taken into consideration.

5. Agreement

Agreement can be achieved once understanding of both sides’ viewpoints and interests have been considered.

6. Implementing a Course of Action

From the agreement, a course of action has to be implemented to carry through the decision.

7. Failure to Agree

If the process of negotiation breaks down and agreement cannot be reached, then re-scheduling a further meeting is called for. 

8. Informal Negotiation

There are times when there is a need to negotiate more informally.  At such times, when a difference of opinion arises, it might not be possible or appropriate to go through the stages set out above in a formal manner.

elements of negotiation

In any negotiation, the following three elements are important and likely to affect the ultimate outcome of the negotiation:

1.Attitudes

2.Knowledge

3.Interpersonal Skills

Attitudes

All negotiation is strongly influenced by underlying attitudes to the process itself, for example attitudes to the issues and personalities involved in the particular case or attitudes linked to personal needs for recognition

Knowledge

The more knowledge you possess of the issues in question, the greater your participation in the process of negotiation. In other words, good preparation is essential. Furthermore, the way issues are negotiated must be understood as negotiating will require different methods in different situations.

Interpersonal Skills

Good interpersonal skills are essential for effective negotiations, both in formal situations and in less formal or one-to-one negotiations.

These skills include:

  • Effective verbal communication. 

  • Listening. Active Listening 

  • Reducing misunderstandings is a key part of effective negotiation. 

  • Rapport Building. Build stronger working relationships based on mutual respect. 

  • Problem Solving. 

  • Decision Making. 

  • Assertiveness. Assertiveness is an essential skill for successful negotiation. 

  • Dealing with Difficult Situations. 


  • https://www.skillsyouneed.com/ips/negotiation.html

INTERPERSONAL CONFLICTS AT WORKPLACE , CONFLICT RESOLUTION STRATEGIES

 MEANING AND TYPES:

conflict

The term conflict means different things to different persons.  It may be regarded as disagreement or hostility between individuals or groups in the organisation. It generally connotes the clash between the ideas, goals & actions of the individuals. 

 Conflict occurs at various levels. It may occur within an individual, between individuals, within a group and between groups.

 Conflict between two or more persons is called interpersonal conflict. Interpersonal conflicts are found between individuals. Individual differences create interpersonal conflicts. Whenever two or more persons interact with each other there are chances that interpersonal conflict may arise because each person is different in terms of personality, perception, values & attitudes. 

Conflict has serious implications on effectiveness, behaviour and performance of the individuals or groups. Therefore, it is very important  to understand what exactly are the reasons for conflict and how it can be handled or resolved.    

 

 

Type of Interpersonal Conflicts:

Following are some types of interpersonal conflicts which are usually found at the workplaces:

 1.  Vertical Conflict  .

This is mostly in the form of superior -subordinate relationships. Superior attempts to control the   behaviour of the subordinates and subordinates resist such control resulting in vertical conflicts.

2.  Horizontal Conflict

This is among the persons at the same hierarchical level in the same function or in different functions.

 3.  Substantive Conflict

 It happens when one person fundamentally disagrees with another person or group in the course of   doing business/job. This is a disagreement of opinion and thought.

4.   Emotional Conflict

This is commonly called as “Clash of personalities”. This type of conflict can sometimes be more draining, and distracts from the more important work that needs to be done. Usually this happens between co-workers who may not like one another.

Reasons for inter-personal conflict

The most commonly cited reasons for interpersonal conflict are personality differences, perceptions, clashes of values and interests, competitive environment, power and status differences, scarce resources, stereotype behaviour, and exploitative nature of human beings. These are briefly discussed below.

Personality :Each individual is different in terms of his personality which again depends on many factors like upbringing, cultural and family traditions, socialisation process, education and values.

2. Information Deficiency: If wrong information or incomplete information is communicated it may create conflict among the related individuals. But it may be corrected easily by communicating the right message. Sometimes physical separation and language can create distortions in messages and in turn lead to conflict.

3. Role Ambiguity : Sometimes an individual performs more than one role in an organisation when expectations of the different roles clash with each other, the individual tends to be in a role conflict. Role conflict also arises due to the known specifications of role assigned to an individual in the organisation structure.

4. Environmental Stress : In case of scares or shrinking resources, downsizing or competitive pressures, individuals consider each other as their competitors or rivals. This clash of interest leads to conflicts.

 

Aspects of Conflicts

Conflict is inevitable in organisations. It affects the organisation in both ways positively and negatively. Viewed from these angles conflicts are characterised as functional and dysfunctional conflicts.

Functional Conflicts

Conflict is not always harmful. Conflicts that support the goal of the group and improve its performance are known as functional conflicts. A moderate degree of conflicts is a necessary condition for creativity or improvement. These are also called constructive conflicts. Following are some of the positive or functional aspects of conflicts

● Conflict leads to new ideas, creativity and innovation

● It creates healthy competition among the individuals

● In case of intergroup conflicts, it brings group cohesiveness

● It provides more challenging work environment

● It promotes change

● It leads to high quality decisions

Dysfunctional Conflicts

The destructive forms of conflicts that hinder group performance are called dysfunctional conflicts. Following consequences may arise due to dysfunctional conflicts.

● High tensions among employees

● Discontentment in employees

● Mistrust

● Goal Displacement

● Resignation of Personnel

● Lockouts & Strikes

● Resistance to Change

● Disobedience

All these factors play a negative role in the growth and environment of the organisation

 

INTERPERSONAL CONFLICT RESOLUTION STRATEGIES

Recognizing the sources of conflict in any organization is the main step in the development of conflict resolution mechanisms . Conflict happens in every organisation and each organisation handles it differently depending upon various factors. There are mainly five ways or styles to manage conflicts   

1) Avoiding

In certain situations it may be appropriate to avoid a conflict. It is a deliberate decision to side step a conflicting issue, postpone addressing it till later or withdraw from a conflicting situation. However researches show that overuse of this style results in negative evaluation from others in the workplace.

2) Accommodating

In this style one party is willing to self sacrifice in the interest of the other party. Over reliance on accommodating has its dangers. If managers constantly defer to others, others may lose respect for him. In addition such managers may become frustrated as their own needs are never met.

3) Forcing

This style is characterised by high assertion and low cooperation. In this style one tries to meet one’s goals at another party’s

4) Compromising

 It is intermediate on both the assertive and cooperative side. Each party tries to give up something to reach a solution to the conflict. A typical “give and take” policy dominates the behaviour of the conflicting parties. It becomes an effective style when efforts towards collaboration have failed.

 5) Collaborating

 It involves the attempts to satisfy the needs of both the parties. This is based on “win-win” style. In this style a creative solution usually emerges because of the joint efforts of both the parties who are keen on both gaining from the situation without hurting the other.

SOME GUIDELINES 

1.    *Analyse the situation /● Choose a management style that fits the situation ● Identify the source of conflict ● Think strategically about conflict rather than react blindly to it. ● Take control of conflicts rather than be controlled by them ● Negotiate, solution to conflicts, rather than fight ● Focus on the task and not on the personalities. ● ● Address conflict without accusation, sarcasm or hostility. in a timely way● Listen to both sides of arguments empathically. ● Predict a problem situation long before it reaches the crisis stage. 

2.    ● Change organisational culture to make healthy communication the norm. 

3.    ● Modal the attitude and behaviour, you want your employees to immolate. 

Conflicts can occur at any organisation where people of varied personalities and backgrounds work together. With the emergence of diverse workplaces, increased use of technology , change in methods and organizational structures and cultures, the possibility of interpersonal conflicts is increasing manifold .However as per many experts not all types of conflicts are harmful. Moderate level of functional conflicts are good for the organizational effectiveness as they bring in creativity and improvement in procedures and operations.