A good introduction will help new acquaintances learn the essential
details about who you are. You shouldn’t
feel embarrassed. A lot of people also become tongue-tied when talking about themselves.
What is a self-introduction?
A
self-introduction explains
·Who you are, Where are you from?, What
you do and ,what others need to know about you, What
are your special skills?, What are you passionate about?
Trim your’s self-introduction down. Some career service advisors
recommend keeping your self-introductory speech as short as two or three
sentences.Others suggest aiming for five to seven minutes
in length.If it is not possible to make your speech this
short, or if time permits you to give a longer introduction, you should still
trim down your speech to be as concise, yet informative, as possible
Below are some examples of phrases you can use
to introduce yourself and give other people a clear understanding of who
you are.
You should provide a self-introduction when youare:
Beginning
an interview
Attending
a hiring event
Networking
with new connections
Giving
a presentation
Meeting
people at a press meet
A
self-introduction should include your name and occupation (or
desired occupation) and key facts that will help you make an impression on the
person you’re speaking to. The goal here is to communicate information about
yourself clearly and quickly (in just 100 words), while showing
a potential employer or client that you are a serious professional. If your speech is supposed to be 3-5 minutes, a 7-minute
speech and a 2-minute speech are equally inappropriate. If you are giving a
brief introductory speech in an interview, be certain that you don't go over
the recommended time.
Use short, simple
sentences. Remember that your speech is going to be spoken
out loud, and your audience will not be able to go back and re-read your words
if something is confusing. Deliver your speech in such a way that no one will
be uncertain of what you are trying to say. Avoid long confused sentences, and
use direct and concise prose as much as possible. Think about your sentence structure
carefully. Reading your speech out loud will help you determine when you have to
be restructured.
Practice your speech.
Practice different inflections and experiment with how you pace yourself during
the speech. You can practice alone by reading at first, but to get some
feedback it's a good idea to perform the speech in front of a friend, family
member or colleague. Practicing in front of other people will enable you to
gauge whether your speech captures the interest of your listeners.
Memorize your speech. Know
what you're going to say, and how you're going to say it, well in advance. Presenting
without reading a paper can create a stronger impression of control, knowledge
and confidence. It will also help keep your audience's attention.
What are the things to be included in self-introduction?
You need to include 4A’s (Academics,
Achievements, Assets & Aspiration)
Academics- talk about your
education, degrees you hold, certifications etc.
Achievements- your personal,
academic and professional achievements.
Assets- your qualities, personality
traits, your behavior etc
Aspirations- your future
professional goals, what you want to be in the future etc.
Common
Phrases for Introducing Yourself
State your name in the very first sentence of your speech.This
can be very straightforward:
ü"Good afternoon!/Good
morning! My name is Akash, and I am a visual communication graduate at the St.
Xavier’s College."
ü“Hi, I am Yohesh kumar. I am a cinematographer
with 5 years of experience. Now I am
very eager to meet the challenge of exploring new areas for your cinema company.”
I’m based in Tiruelveli,
but I live in Chennai.( This phrase is used when you
want to make it clear that your current living situation is temporary, or you
do a lot of traveling because of your job.)
I live in Chennai, but I’m
originally from Ramanathapuram/Madurai/Tirunelveli/Nagercoil
I was born in Tirunelveli / I grew up in Tirunelveli.
I’m a colleague
of Ka.ka.pa. I work together with Ka.ka.pa / I’m Ka.ka.pa ‘s brother / Ka.ka.pa and I both study communication at St. Xaviers’ College.
I’m the daughter/son of Dinamalar photographer Mr. Murugan
/ I’m one of three children / I’m the son of Dr. Kamala.
Freud not only theorized about how personality developed over the course of childhood, but he also developed a framework for how overall personality is structured.
In the 1890s, Freud proposed a theory that distinguished between three different levels of consciousness.
According to Freud, the basic driving force of personality and behavior is known as the libido. Freud proposed that the id was the source of the libido (Libido is influenced by biological, psychological, and social factors.), a source of energy for the entire psyche.
This libidinal energy fuels the three components that make up personality: the id, the ego, and the superego.
The ideas of id, ego, and super-ego were an attempt to describe important components of the psyche (PSY-kee). The psyche was conceived as the overall universe of the mind, while the id, ego, and super-ego were (to Freud) divisions or functions of the psyche.
Freud described the id as "chaos, a cauldron full of seething excitation" dominated by impulses of sex and aggression.
Freud described the mental activity generated by the id as primary process thinking. Primary means first.
Primary process thinking is primitive, dream-like thinking, presumably the first type of thinking we experience as babies. It is simple, irrational, and gut-level, aimed at seeking pleasure or avoiding pain. As adults, we experience it most often in dreams or in moments of mental disturbance.
The id is the aspect of personality present at birth. It is the most primal part of the personality and drives people to fulfill their most basic needs and urges. The first developing part of the psyche, in Freud's theory, was the which means "it." the id was a dark, unknown part of the mind that controls us but remains outside our awareness.
Theego is the aspect of personality charged with controlling the urges of the id and forcing it to behave in realistic ways. The second of Freud's three divisions of the psyche is the ego. Ego means "I." It is roughly equivalent to our sense of identity: who we think we are. The ego was not equivalent to consciousness in Freud's scheme. He called the ego an agent of adaptation. Some of those adaptations were unconscious (for example, defense mechanisms).
Freud described the ego drawing power from the id while attempting to control it like a rider on a horse. In this metaphor the horse represents the id: a primitive, animal-like source of energy. The rider represents the ego. It may be weak or strong, clumsy or skillful.
Freud described the ego drawing
power from the id while attempting to control it like a rider on a horse. In
this metaphor the horse represents the id: a primitive, animal-like source of
energy. The rider represents the ego. It may be weak or strong, clumsy or
skillful.
If the rider is uncoordinated or lacking in skill, the horse goes whatever
direction it pleases, and the rider must hold on for dear life. This is like a
person whose impulses are out of control, poorly coordinated by the ego.
In the other hand, if the rider is an expert, the horse becomes like an extension
of the rider's willpower, making the rider swifter and more powerful than a
human on foot. Similarly, in Freud's view, the id provided raw energy, and the
ego (if skillful or well controlled) used this energy to do remarkable,
positive things.
What
is ego strength?
To Freud, having
good ego
strength was not the
same thing as being egotistical, conceited, or vain. Having good ego strength
meant being able to remain in control in stressful situations, or being able to
persist in directing energy toward long-term goals, despite short-term
problems.
Freud said the ego develops in early childhood. Little children discover that
id-impulses cannot be gratified immediately. The pleasure principle produces
frustration.
To get what they want, children must learn rational or realistic strategies,
and sometimes they must tolerate a delay in gratification. The ego develops as
a result of this clash between desires of the id and realities of the world,
Freud said.
With the development of the ego comes conscious, rational thinking. Freud
called this secondary
process thinking because it occurred later in development and
modified the animal-like primary process thinking.
Freud suggested that primary process thinking was dominated by the pleasure
principle, whereas secondary process thinking–controlled by the ego–was based
on the reality
principle. The reality principle was the ability of the ego to make
plans that take reality into account, even if it meant postponing pleasure or
denying fantasies.
The Super-Ego
Thesuperego is the final aspect of personality to develop and contains all of the ideals, morals, and values imbued by our parents and culture.
The super-ego was a
third function that Freud hypothesized. The word super means above,
and the super-ego is like a supervisor of the psyche, monitoring activity and
making value judgments that lead us to feel good or bad about our behavior.
Freud believed we learn morals and
values from the people who take care of us in childhood. These values are internalized or
taken inside us, and the result is the super-ego.
Freud said the super-ego, as an
"internalization of parental values," was responsible for both pride and guilt.
Because of this two-edged quality, one psychoanalyst (Schecter 1979) referred
to the loving and persecuting super-ego.
According to Freud, the super-ego was partly unconscious. We could be aware of
parts of it, but we could also be surprised by guilt or pride.
Freud believed the id generates urges and impulses in
accordance with the pleasure principle: pursuit of immediate
gratification. The pleasure principle can be summarized as "I want what I
want when I want it."
Freud believed babies were all id when
born. When a baby is hungry or lonely, it cries and demands immediate relief.
When it experiences pleasure, it is a pure, self-satisfied pleasure.
Even children three or four years old
have a hard time waiting more than a few minutes for something they want. They
operate on the pleasure principle; they want immediate gratification.
What
was the unconscious like, according to Freud?
In general, Freud said, the unconscious
is infantile.
It is not necessarily evil, but it is childlike. It is innocently good or bad
depending on circumstances, reacting with immediacy to events as they happen.
In the unconscious, Freud believed, we
all have a desire for immediate gratification and low tolerance for
frustration. Only the development of more mature, controlling parts of the mind
helps us avoid expressing id impulses and acting like babies when we are grown
up